I have soooo been there. I kept my mouth shut so, so, so many times just to keep the peace and not be hurtful. You know what I found out in the end? It made things worse...and those words came straight from the ex's mouth. He said me being nice made it worse. He was right.
I've ranted - on my blog. I can't seem to say things directly outloud because I get frustrated and start bawling, and end up embarrassing myself. The blog rant wasn't well received, but I feel better. I'd have done it sooner, though, and not let it build up....hind sight's 20/20!
My tongue has been bitten to the bleeding stage. I'm kind of there now. I'm trying to decide if I say something or just let it go...let it all go. I have to do something because I'm not myself...can't be.
Like you should take this advice from me, given what I just said but, girl, you rock. Be your beautiful self.
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I have soooo been there. I kept my mouth shut so, so, so many times just to keep the peace and not be hurtful. You know what I found out in the end? It made things worse...and those words came straight from the ex's mouth. He said me being nice made it worse. He was right.
I've ranted - on my blog. I can't seem to say things directly outloud because I get frustrated and start bawling, and end up embarrassing myself. The blog rant wasn't well received, but I feel better. I'd have done it sooner, though, and not let it build up....hind sight's 20/20!
My tongue has been bitten to the bleeding stage. I'm kind of there now. I'm trying to decide if I say something or just let it go...let it all go. I have to do something because I'm not myself...can't be.
Like you should take this advice from me, given what I just said but, girl, you rock. Be your beautiful self.
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