Wednesday, November 25, 2009

I'm wondering...

How long after the break-up of a marriage is it appropriate to continue wearing your wedding ring? Is it inappropriate to wear it on your right hand if you're not ready to give it up entirely? (I'm still not ready to take it off my left though.) Would it be wrong to keep wearing it until my hands become to fat to wear it any longer?

Do I really need to change my Facebook relationship status from married to single? Again, how long is it okay to just leave it as-is? Do I let him change the status, and just leave it until he does? I'd prefer to just leave it as-is. I think when he does change it, I'll just hide my status from that point forward.

How long does it take for you to stop loving someone that you love with every ounce of your being?


The Original Princess said...

There is no right or wrong. You do all those things when you feel like you're ready.

Independent Chick said...

I'm with Princess on that. Keep the ring on if that feels right to you. Keep your status on FB until you're ready for questions (because there will be some). You will love them forever because they are the father of your children. It's a different love but it's a perfectly ok love.